The 4 Personality type : A Phlegmatic
A PHLEGMATIC
1.Can appear shy
You won’t find the phlegmatic personality type dancing on the tables in
a bar in Corfu. In fact, the first time you meet one, you’ll probably think
they are quite shy and unassuming.
This is because they tend to be calm and relaxed most of the time. They don’t
like to rock the boat or challenge authority.(dominating hormone :- oxytocin)
2. They are loners
Phlegmatic types are not loners in a sad sense of the word.
They do want and quite often have wonderful families and good relationships.
But they do need some alone time to themselves.
They won’t like a big surprise party on their 40th birthday. However, a night out
with a few good friends is perfect for them.
3. More than happy to help
If you want something done with a smile, ask a phlegmatic personality
type.
They are cooperative and helpful and want to contribute to other people’s
happiness. These are the types that think the needs of the many
outweigh the wants of a few.
4. Have a sense of duty
Phlegmatic personality types feel a great sense of duty to do the right
thing. This manifests in a number of ways.
For example, from volunteering in a charity shop to
donating money to the homeless. They believe in a fairer world for everyone and
can’t understand why injustices occur.
5. They are empathic
Phlegmatic types don’t just feel empathy, they will want to know
all your deepest and darkest thoughts. This is so that they can experience what
you are going through even more.
They will strive
to understand your experiences so they can be in a better position to help.
6. They have a tendency to blame themselves when things go wrong
Because they are so empathic, they feel other people’s pain more acutely and
as such, have a sense of blame because they could not help ease that
pain.
They are
responsible people anyway but add into the mix a sense of duty, empathy and the
fact that they want to help, and it is inevitable that they end up blaming
themselves.
7. They can see the bigger
picture
You will never get these types stuck on the small details. As a matter
of fact, they have an uncanny way of seeing the whole picture in amazing
detail.
They are imaginative and can come up with innovative solutions.
This is because they find it easy to read between the lines and see solutions.
8. They follow authority
You’re not likely to find a phlegmatic type leading a rebel cause or
shouting in a picket line. They believe in authority and what it stands for.
Not only that but they find it terribly hard to break the
rules. These types won’t have smoked pot in their youth or dabbled in drugs.
Moreover, they don’t really get those that have.
9. Trustworthy and loyal
You won’t get a more loyal or trustworthy friend or partner than the
phlegmatic type.
This is partly because if they make a promise they will always keep it. It’s
only right. If you cannot rely on a person’s word, then what do you have?
10. They put others before
their own needs
The mother that gives her children the best food, the brother that lets
his little sister sit by the window in the car.
All these little things relate to the phlegmatic
personality type. They put their own needs last because they want a happy and peaceful
world.
11. They don’t get
involved in a conflict
Because they want this peaceful world, you won’t find them in the middle
of a major argument. Actually, that’s a lie.
You might, but
they’ll be the ones trying to mediate and break it up. They certainly won’t be
the ones causing the conflict in the first place.
12. They look for ‘the
one’
The phlegmatic
personality type will not spend hours and hours swiping on online dating sites. They are looking for that special soulmate they
can spend the rest of their lives with.
They
want a special bond and will work at their relationship. This type is a hopeless
romantic.
13. They can be indecisive
Those that
prefer to follow authority figures without questioning often like to delegate
the important decisions to others.
The phlegmatic personality type is just one of
those people. This is because of several reasons; they don’t want to make the
wrong decision in case they upset anyone but also because their strengths lie
in the emotional wellbeing of others. And that is what they want to concentrate
on.
In
summary, the phlegmatic personality type is a laidback, caring, quiet
individual who cares about others. They are happy to help other people, even if
it means they have to compromise their own future.
Strengths
of a Phlegmatic
The Introvert | The Watcher | The Pessimist The Phlegmatic's
Emotions
• Low-key personality
• Easygoing and relaxed
• Calm, cool and collected
• Patient well balanced
• Consistent life
• Quiet but witty
• Sympathetic and kind
• Keeps emotions hidden
• Happily reconciled to life
Weaknesses
of a Phlegmatic
• Has compassion and concern The Introvert | The Watcher |
The Pessimist The Phlegmatic's Emotions
• Unenthusiastic
• Fearful and worried
• Indecisive
• Avoids responsibility
• Quiet will of iron
• Selfish
• To shy and reticent
• Too compromising
• Self-righteous
• All-purpose person
The
Phlegmatic As A Parent
• Makes a good parent
• Takes time for the children
• Is not in a hurry
• Can take the good with the bad
• Doesn't get upset easily
The Phlegmatic At Work
• Competent and steady
• Peaceful and agreeable
• Has administrative ability
• Mediates problems
• Avoids conflicts
• Good under pressure
• Finds the easy way
The
Phlegmatic As a Friend
• Easy to get along with
• Pleasant and enjoyable
• Inoffensive
• Good listener
• Dry sense of humor
• Enjoys watching people
• Has many friends
The
Phlegmatic As A Parent
• Lax on discipline
• Doesn't organize home
• Takes life to easy
The
Phlegmatic At Work
• Not goal oriented
• Lacks self motivation
• Hard to get moving
• Resents being pushed
• Lazy and careless
• Discourages others
• Would rather watch
The Phlegmatic As a Friend
• Dampens enthusiasm
• Stays uninvolved
• Is not exciting
• Indifferent to plans
• Judges others
• Sarcastic and teasing
• Resists change
Reference:- https://www.learning-mind.com/phlegmatic-personality/
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